Saturday, January 30, 2010

Imposing once own values to the poor ???

"Families have the right to choose... what is the best FP method for them! because it is the poor families and their children who will suffer directly - no food, no clothes, no etc. (not the church nor the priest, nor others who impose their values to the poor...)

and it is the gov't responsibility to provide them the opportunities so the poor families can decide responsibly on how they can have a better Quality of Life"

Pro QUALITY LIFE Training & Dev't. Inc. (Q-Life) proqualitylife@gmail.com

FAMILIES HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE

FAMILIES HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE
By FORMER PRESIDENT FIDEL V. RAMOS
January 30, 2010, 8:33pm

Romance Mathematics
Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy.
- Jimmy Teo

Quoted above is a practical bit of 21st century wisdom attributed to
Singapore journalist Jimmy Teo. Like me, Jimmy writes regularly for ASEAN
BizTimes, a widely circulated magazine in the Asia-Pacific region. His
sardonic commentary on modern-day man-woman relationships may not be
completely accurate, but does portray today's dilemma of couples (married or not) who are into some romantic or intimate involvement.

Saving The HR Bill From Oblivion

This column, however, is not really about mathematics per se, but is really
one more appeal for the approval of the Reproductive Health Bill – perhaps
my last hopeful try – before the 14th Congress lapses into history on 05
February. The entire tedious cycle of sponsorship, hearings, debates,
"horse-trading," bicam compromises, and Malacañang approval may have to be
again undertaken in the next Congress – if it reaches that point. But, the
present RH Bill, and other equally meritorious pending legislative proposals which are on the verge of extinction, could still be saved from the oblivion of "nice-tries."

Only PGMA now, and her Cabinet advisers and Congressional allies – thru
their exercise of consistent political will – still can get such urgent
legislation finally approved before the deadline. It would take firm
Presidential direction to get essential reforms enacted with few days
remaining – even if this would entail a Special Session.

But, this can be done. In earlier times, even more contentious legislative
issues were resolved through the President's power to certify, persuade and
compel.

Forum for Family Planning and Development

Population management advocates and women's rights champions got together
last 15 January to make one more push. The occasion was the investiture of
Loida Nicolas-Lewis as FFPD's 6th Eminent Person. She joins a select company of concerned Filipinos: former PM Cesar Virata, SGV founder Washington Sycip, PopCom Commissioner Mercedes Concepcion, Lopez Group Chairman Oscar Lopez, and FVR.

The FFPD's investiture program says it all, thus:

"Families have the right to choose"

It is State's responsibility to provide them the means to make that choice

"We recognize that every couple has the right to decide how many children
they can raise while ensuring health/well-being. But it is a grim reality
that in the Philippines, poorer families are the ones who have more children than they want and can decently provide for.

Population, economic growth and poverty

"We also recognize that women bear a disproportionate portionate burden in
child-bearing, child-rearing, producing, and managing family resources to
meet everyday needs. We refuse to accept that mothers should still die from
pregnancy and childbirth-related causes as almost all are preventable.

"Further, we acknowledge the close association between population growth,
economic development, and persistent poverty. Population affects everything
– from food security to education, health, housing, water, energy,
environment, transportation, communications, law and order, productivity,
and human welfare in general.

Clear, firm government policy

"We call on the government in partnership with business and civil society to adopt a clear, firm population policy to enable couples to freely and
responsibly manage their families, using all available effective and safe
family planning methods according to their values and beliefs. Such
population policy and family planning development minimize unintended and
mistimed pregnancies, thereby preventing induced/illegal abortions which
total over 500,000 annually. This we find absolutely abhorrent and
unacceptable.

RH Bill is against abortion

"We believe that the Reproductive Health Bill – which is explicitly against
abortion – will be an effective instrument of national population policy.
Therefore, we strongly endorse its passage by Congress and urge the national leadership's full support – to indicate Government's seriousness in pursuing long-term economic growth and poverty reduction."

Loida Nicolas-Lewis, women's rights champion

And who is Loida Nicolas-Lewis? She, is first of all, a highly respected
FIlipino-American, a world-class entrepreneur, mother of two Harvard
cum-laude daughters, and member of New York's St. Ignatius Loyola Catholic
Church. Loida also is:

Chairperson of the multi-million dollar TLC Group;
An attorney by profession; first Filipina to pass the N.Y. bar without
attending a U.S. law school;

One of the founders, now Chair Emeritus, of the National Federation of
Filipino-American Associations (NaFFAA); Founder/President of Lewis College in Sorsogon.

Commission on Population

In 1970, the National Population Program was launched following the creation of the Commission on Population (POPCOM). Its principal thrust was the reduction of fertility and the provision of family planning services using a clinic-based and contraceptive-oriented approach.

According to the 2002 National Demographic and Health Survey of the National Statistics Office, the weak Philippine economic situation in the early 1980s and during the Aquino Administration affected population policy. In addition, the program was faced with institutional instability because of changing POPCOM leadership and opposition from the Catholic Church. In response, the program changed its emphasis to family welfare/development, which broadened to include status of women; maternal/child health; and mortality/morbidity. Other areas included population distribution/structure and migration.

Its two-pronged strategy was: 1) integration of population and development,
and 2) responsible parenthood and family planning.

Philippine Population Management Program

The NSO went on to record that the Ramos Administration, which strongly
supported the population program, paved the way for the redefinition of the
country's "population control" to "population program" to "population
management." Anchored by the "population-resource-environment" (PRE or
sustainable development) framework, its totality was renamed the Philippine
Population Management Program. This led to the Philippines' participation in various international fora as a model for developing countries. Under the Local Government Code, health service delivery including family planning, and counseling, became a mandate of LGUs.

Better quality of life

POPCOM further expanded this framework by: 1) considering human resource
development (expansion of knowledge/skills, and improved health/nutrition to enhance productivity), 2) incorporating other major concerns of reproductive health, adolescent health, and gender equity, and 3) reducing unmet needs for family planning, and helping couples achieve fertility preferences.

Besides respecting the balance among population, resources, and environment,the Population and Sustainable Development framework redefined "development" as the "sustained capacity to achieve people's well-being or a better "quality of life," meaning the capacity to be free from avoidable illness, be nourished, be educated, have employment and income opportunities, meet one's fertility preferences, and enjoy social justice and equity."

The 2008 population survey

The 2008 NDHS is a nationally representative survey of 13,594 women,
covering 794 clusters throughout the Philippines. Its main findings are:

High Fertility Level. Current Philippine fertility level is relatively high
compared with other countries in Southeast Asia, such as Thailand, Singapore and Indonesia, where the rate is below 2 children per woman.

Unplanned Fertility. Despite a steady rise in the level of contraceptive
use, unplanned pregnancies are common. Overall, one in three births in the
Philippines is either unwanted (16 percent) or mistimed/wanted later (20
percent).

Fertility Preferences. A significant desire exists among married Filipino
women to stop having children. Over half (54 percent) of married women do
not want another child and an additional 9 percent are already sterilized.
Nineteen percent of married women want to have another child, but prefer to
wait two or more years.

Use of Contraceptives. At least 90 percent of married women have heard of
the pill, condoms, injectables, IUDs and sterilization. The most commonly
used modern method is the pill (16 percent), followed by female
sterilization (9 percent). Another 17 percent are using traditional methods,including abstinence and withdrawal.

Unmet Need. "Unmet need" for family planning is that percentage of married
women who either do not want any more children or want to wait before having another birth, but are not using any family planning method.

Current data shows that total unmet need for family planning in the Philippines is 22 percent, of which 13 percent is for "limiting" and 9 percent is for "spacing," an increase from 17 percent in 2003 – which represents retrogressive backsliding.

Loida's intimate admonition

"No one else should be in the matrimonial bedroom when the man and woman
express their love for each other in that most intimate expression of love – their physical union.

"The decision of how many children the couple should have remains between
the husband and wife, because they alone know how best to maintain the
harmony and love they have for one another and their children," admonishes
Loida-Nicolas-Lewis.

LAST CHANCE FOR QUALITY POPULATION???

TODAY'S RH BILL MAY BE OUR LAST CHANCE FOR DEVELOPING QUALITY POPULATION –
WITHIN A GENERATION. YES, IT TAKES AT LEAST 20-25 YEARS TO ACHIEVE THAT, BUT WE'VE ALREADY LOST 9 YEARS UNDER PGMA.
THINK OF THE ADVANTAGE OF QUALITY PHILIPPINE POPULATION, WITHOUT BEGGARS AND STREET CHILDREN. UNBEATABLE!!!

Please send any comments to fvr@rpdev.org. Copies of articles are available
at www.rpdev.org.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Options & Opportunities! to rise above poverty ...

PRO QUALITY LIFE Training & Development Inc. (Q-LIFE)
Advocating Poverty Reduction and Quality of Life for the Poor Filipinos
1-93 J. Osmeña Ext. Cebu City Tel (032) 2590989/4166084,
e-add:proqualitylife@gmail.com


Jan 25, 2010


To: Educators, Information Officers, Media People and other Socially Responsible Grps / Individuals,

Our NGO, is strongly advocating Poverty Reduction and Quality of Life for the Poor Filipino Families, which I think is very similar to many of the development agencies objective.

What makes it different, is our strong belief ( among others…) that Quality of Life can be achieved even to the poor families, If they are RESPONSIBLE enough in whatever decisions / actions they undertake, including getting married and having a family and planning the number of children they can afford and attend to.

With our economic situation, even if both parents are working, but there are several children, they will still encounter financial difficulties. How much more for families with several children but have low or no definite income? They have to be RESPONSIBLE also, and aside from being Economically Productive, they have to be Less Reproductive! so they can be financially independent and will not also be a burden to others, to the government and to our society. We cannot and do not have to wait for the government or the church to solve Poverty.

Since we want them to be RESPONSIBLE, we also have to educate them and provide them with Options or Choices as well as Opportunities.

There is an upcoming Option and Opportunity - aside from being FREE (this is no longer free even in gov’t hospital, ( P3,000/procedure in a private facility), these will also be performed by expert US Urologists, ( pls. refer to the attached) and because client will have no income 2-3 days after NSV, financial assistance will be extended to them for loss of income and other related expenses.

We have been conducting NSV Education for months now and also during the mission. It is very important that they have access to proper NSV education. Our opinions differ, but I hope we will not impose our own values to them, because it is not us who will directly suffer, but the poor children and the family members, so the decision should be theirs ! ours is only to disseminate /educate. NSV education is for all , but NSV is voluntary, intended only for those who are interested.

If foreign nationals and Filipinos living comfortably in the U.S. are concern with our poor Filipino families living in poverty, how much more for us who are seeing their sufferings more often, families with little children living in the streets,some scavenging or begging for food…at times we will also be victimized by these children snatchers hold uppers and or we will be affected with other socio-eco problems of our society.

I hope those who are in the best position to widely disseminate this, will do so, to help the poor Filipinos to rise above poverty and to gradually reduce unattended, neglected, abandoned, malnourished, out-of-school and or children in the streets. Thank you very much !

Very truly yours,

MS. FROHNIE D. CAGALITAN, RSW
Executive Director

No Needle NSV Mission in the Visayas by NSV International, USA

FOR PRESS RELEASE


US Urologists to conduct
FREE No-Needle NSV Mission
in the Visayas
NSV International, Inc. (USA) will conduct FREE No-Needle/No-Scalpel Vasectomy Mission, in Negros (Feb.5-La Libertad), Leyte (Feb8-Hilongos) and Cebu, ( Feb. 10-11, 2010 - Talisay Dist. Hosp)

The President, Dr. Ramon U. Suarez, M.D.,F.A.C.S. Diplomate, American Board of Urology,(from Pennsylvania) with another Urologists, Dr. Douglas G. Stein, one of America’s top doctor (from Florida) affiliated with 4 star hospital and 4 star medical school. Dr. Stein has performed over 20,300 vasectomies, (as of July 2009 www.vasweb.com).Another practicing Physician in New York Dr. Ron Suarez, the son of Dr. Ramon Suarez, will also join the NSV Team. Both father and son have undergone vasectomy and are satisfied, thus actively promoting NSV.

No-Needle NSV, first introduced in the Phils, Jan. 2009 by NSV International, is a modern technique of Vasectomy which is a Safe, Simple & Quick (15 min. ave.) procedure, entail no incision, no suture, just Band-Aid! and No-Needle, only pressure spray applicator (MadaJet) is used for anesthesia. It is 99.85 % effective if instructions are followed. After NSV there is No change in the semen, No change in sex drive, No change in climax sensation, No change in the testes or scrotum, No change in erections. There are already many Filipinos in various parts of the country, workers, drivers, laborers who have already undergone NSV.

The Founders of NSV International Inc, Dr. Ramon Suarez and Engr. Bob Kiamco (both and their family members have undergone Vasectomy) and their spouses Dr. Nenita Suarez and Dr. Benie Kiamco, Filipino-Americans residing in the U.S are very concern of their fellow Filipinos particularly the low income families. For a number of years now, they have been subsidizing the expense of NSV at Sacred Heart Hospital and providing it for FREE to those who this (in other private clinics it is P3,000+ per procedure).

NSV is voluntary and intended only for those who don’t want additional children anymore and are interested to avail of it. NSV Orientation has been going on for several months already. We have to make sure clients are well informed before any procedure.

For more information, pls contact: Ms. Frohnie D. Cagalitan - T 032-2590989, 4166084, 0927 5719399,or Ms. Myrna H. Danuco of Sacred Heart Hospital, Cebu City - T 032-4188980.


Ms. Frohnie D. Cagalitan, RSW
Pro QUALITY LIFE Trng. & Devt. Inc (Q-Life Inc.)
e-add: proqualitylife@gmail.com

Responsabling Bana...palihog FAMILIA PLANOHA !

RESPONSABLING BANA… palihog FAMILIA PLANOHA!
( daku kini nga gasa nga makalipay sa asawa… )


Kon pila lang ka BATA, ang kaya BUHION, kaya ATIMANON
Mao ra unta ang ANAKON!

Para MAAYOG KAON, di Buti-tion, di MASAKITON,
Maka-ayo ug Tuon, HAYAG UG KAUGMAON!

Kon di na Maka-Buhi, di na MAKA-ATIMAN…..
Sa mga BATA NGA DAGHAN… DI NA unta angay PUN-AN !

Kay maka-dugang lang, sa PROBLEMA sa katilingban
Sama sa nga Bata sa Kadalanan. . .Gipuhunan sa GINIKANAN
Ang uban ma-Kawatan, ma TULISAN,
Ma–PROBLEMA lang ang KATAWHAN….

Kon kita gusto sad Motabang, isip Responsabling Mamamayan
Magpakabana kita para sa KAAYUHAN sa atong KATILINGBAN

E-DU-KA-HON UG N-S-V ANG KA-BA-NA-HAN !

Ang No-Needle No-Scalpel Vasectomy (NN/NSV) bag-ong teknik sa Vasectomy. LUWAS, SAYON UG KADYOT lang (15 mins ave.) Way dagom, way hiwa, way tahi, Band-Aid lang! Daghan na mga trabahante nga NSV na, dili maka apecto sa kusog,o sa sexualidad. Mas monindot pa ang relasyon sa magtiayon, kay wa na sila kahadlokan nga mapun-an pa ang anak.

Ang NSV International, Inc (USA) moanhi sa Pilipinas, para maghimo ug LIBRE nga NSV Mission, sa Negros, (Feb 5-La Libertad Neg.Or.) Leyte (Feb.8-Hilongos) ug sa Cebu (Talisay District Hospital - Feb 10-11, 2010. Mga Urologists/Doctors gikan sa Pennsylvania, Florida ug New York motabang ug hatag LIBRE nga sirbisyo. Dunay grupo mohatag hinabang para sa pamilya, mientras di pa ka trabaho ug bug-at human NSV.

Ang NSV boluntaryo, para lang kini niadtong dina gusto pun-an ang anak ug interesado magpa NSV, Dugay ra gasigi ug himo orientation ang Pro Quality Life para masabtan unsa ang NSV, aduna sad sa adlaw sa mission.

Sa ubang pangutana, ma-kontak ang Health Center o Ms. Frohnie D. Cagalitan sa Pro Quality Life T 032-2590989 / 4166084/ 09275719399 o sa Sacred Health Hospital T 032-4188980

Don't want additional children anymore ?

Di na gusto pun-an ang anak?

L I B R E ! NO NEEDLE NSV Mission
Feb 10-11,2020 – Talisay District Hospital

by No Scalpel Vasectomy Int’l. USA, mga Urologists/Doctors
gikan sa America

No Scalpel Vasectomy - luwas, sayon,ug paspas (15 mins.)
Way dagom, way hiwa, way tahi, Band-Aid lang!

… way kausaban sa sekswalidad, sex drive, erection o sa kusog

Adunay NSV Orientation para masabtan unsa ang NSV ug matubag pangutana. Ang pag edukar para sa tanan…pero ang NSV para lang niadtong interesado …

Pre Registration – Jan 29,sa ubang pangutana, kontak sa: Health Center o Ms.Frohnie D. Cagalitan Pro Quality Life Trng. & Dev’t. Inc. 2590989, 4166084, 09275719399 o Sacred Heart Hospital - 4188980